My wife is amazing.
She's taken good care of me for a few decades, and I hope she feels I've done the same for her. She has been a great wife, and a fantastic mom to our child and to our pets.
She's going to need one of you to help her.
Above all other things, what she needs is someone to talk to — someone who will listen.
She needs a reliable man to be her next partner. A kind man to be the next father figure to her child.
She needs a reasonable man to be her next love.
I don't think she knows that she needs all of this. Most likely, her mind is not on any of this right now.